Silencing the Mind: The Path to Lasting Peace
The definition of peace according to dictionary.com: is to end hostilities and abstain from further fighting. Or for individuals: to be or become silent. But is it possible to keep the mind silent? The minute I wake up, my mind is filled with thoughts as it jumps from one thought to the next. Before I knew it, I had gone from thinking about what clothes to wear in the morning to worrying about being late to work while I slowly crawled to a halt in traffic. The question is how do we obtain peace from the random thoughts of worries and anxiety?
In recent years, mental health has become a prominent topic in society, mainly because of COVID-19 and its effects on mankind. Humans need to socialise and with the lockdowns placed on civilisation throughout the world, humans were left stuck in their homes for a prolonged period. According to recent studies, socialising helps sharpen memory and cognitive skills and increases your sense of happiness and well-being. Humans are social animals so being unable
to socialise, led to a big decline in mental health. The thoughts of worries, anxiety and a whole bunch of other things began to run through the mind which overpowers the mind from functioning adequately. Before COVID, the mind was preoccupied with daily tasks and activities, but the lockdown forced many of us into our homes and stuck with our thoughts. Yes, I may have a nice comfortable life but internally, my mind is not content and at peace. It feels like something is still missing.
After my car was hit while I was parked, my mind ran wild with thoughts, thinking of every worst-case scenario I could think of. The thoughts of worries and fears began to consume me even though this was a minor incident. All it was, was a case of phoning the insurance company who fixed the car and the
culprit was caught through CCTV. That’s it. If only I could have thought like this initially, this would have saved me so much stress. Even at work, the increasing level of responsibilities, deadlines and pressure from management has me in a stress-like state. I have found this to be the case for many individuals I have interacted with.
The question arises for me: How can I keep my mind positive, chilled and peaceful, even through all the mayhem that is occurring around me? What can I do to ensure my mind remains at peace even though I may be going through a tough period at work or home?
Many have suggested the use of mindfulness activities such as yoga and breathing techniques. I have given this a go for a few weeks. However, I only obtain temporary peace. Once I finish this activity, the thoughts of worries and anxiety pop into my head again. I wish to obtain a state of mind where I am at peace all the time and I see the positive in every situation, thanking God as I live my life.
My faith is a big part of my life. I go to church every Sunday with the family to pray to Jesus and to find serenity. Joining the congregation at the church and singing praises to God gives me immense joy and peace and to know that God is taking care of us in our journey on Earth. This has given me a lot of strength in my life to push through hard times.
A few months ago, I got a call from my friend who mentioned an art gallery has hosted a new art installation called the ‘Journey of the Mind’. My friend continued to explain how it talks about mental health, so I thought to visit and have a look. When I looked at the art and read the excerpts which were alongside this, it gave me an appreciation for the life I had been blessed with. The art was about Sikh History, and it explained how many people in Sikh history had gone through very tough times and what they did to overcome the challenges they faced. It felt very relatable to me and my journey.
And then this was the moment when I came across Simran. Simran is a focussed practice for the mind. The idea of Simran is to chant a simple two-syllable word, you can choose any simple word that you would like. Listen to the chanting with your ears and place your full focus on the sound of your voice. There was a room in the gallery where I gave this a go. I sat there for a good 10 minutes and repeated the word. With every repetition, the thoughts sort of left me, and by the end of it, I was left feeling immensely different, as if I was sitting in another world.
After this experience, I thought I would continue this practice and it has worked wonders for me. The painful thoughts have reduced dramatically as I continue to practice this every day, and I see more positives in my everyday situations. I have never been more at peace.
Image by Newel Hunter, Pursuit Painting, 2022
Image by Newel Hunter, Pursuit Painting, 2022